What Colour am i?

For those who are colour blind i certainly am a miss but for those who are not, read further..

Am not pink on the broader perspective for it represents the other preference which i certainly am not. Light pink is definitely me as am very friendly and romantic. Black I obviously am for it represents my elegance and the dark and unexplored side. White I am for my innocence and honesty. Blue I stand as am loyal and trust worthy. Green I have shades of, as am natural and non-toxic. Yellow is me for as I shine with energy and joy. Brown for my skin tone and stability in life. Red for my will power and courage. And for all those who are not this colourful don’t worry no more, for you can pick a colour of your choice and voila!. am there.

Lady Influences and Me (Part 1)

Of all the influences I had in my life, some stand note worthy and the rest not worthy. People change or adapt accordingly under a strong influence which is reflected either in their approach on certain issues or on their personality on the whole. Of many such influences and changes the most significant ones are from my lady friends, family and not so significant others.

All the women in my life have contributed to or imparted some change in me with their direct and indirect influences. They include my mom, my sisters and my friends.

Right from my birth to the day now, my mom had had a greater influence on my personality and my understanding of life. She taught me everything that is me now, from mumbling the first ever word ‘mama’ to writing this blog. She taught me the civilised life with her honest, tolerant and caring presence. Her love and caring never eased and continues to grow with me. She is a never-ending song in my heart of comfort, happiness, and being. I may sometimes forget the words but I always remember the tune.

My sisters too have had their significant influences on me. My elder sister and her dedication to the family taught me the importance of loving owns’ family and being loved back. My younger sister also played her part and still continues to with her money saving skills and her always there for me attitude. Though one is elder and the other younger they with me forever like a gift to my heart, a friend to my soul, a witness to my worst and best, like a shadow through my ups and downs sharing the joys and sorrow.

They stand unique to themselves and any other women I have come across. They are most beautiful and wonderful things to happen to me. Even as they stand north and south when it comes to their personalities they left an indelible impression and influenced my life in one of the most gorgeous and magnificent ways. They changed my perspective on women or I say my understanding of them with their mood swings, sweet talks, love and emotion and their attention to detail.

I am what i am today and without them am no one today, thank you ma for everything that i am and will be tomorrow.

The Glam Pam Effect I

The 'pam effect' from the erstwhile Baywatch season was quite brouhaha among disparate ages and gender. The effect i’d say has revolutionised the way we descry female bosom. The trend is quite celebrated and tracked in the western worlds where augmentation lands you into immediate spot light. Many an artists and queens (from different cosmos) donned the same and ruled the roost thanks to the fancy of the opposite sex. The ‘Pam effect’ has gradually transformed or i like to say ‘transmogrified’ into something that has become a phantasm for both the genders. The uplift has been shifted to nose, ears, face, chin and what all they think need a change or perfection. Suddenly perfection is all cosmetic and simulated. Little do we realise that the microcosm of such tawdry acts can only last till it reaches the crest. On the same lines i want to quote about an article which i recently read where an English journalist tried something different by artificially or say temporarily augmenting herself and finding the thrills and fun by grabbing all the attention she never thought was hers. She then quotes that this act of hers has elated her to a celebrity encountered with more chivalrous men than usual. The attention and respect showered on her, she says’ was nothing she might have got with her current stature. Did she forget that the perceptions and the fantasies of any gender change when encountered with something greater than usual? So i say shame the glam rather than sham it and let the generations live with natural conscience than anything else that’s simulated.

Music - The most potent muse

Little did i know ‘nothing else matters’ is an attitude quipped by the legends intending to say nothing matters when it comes to music. The six strings and the eternal bliss are like a felicity of expression with more to it than mere articulation.

The quintessential bands and groups that played the strings have always had that divine mien transcending tranquillity and nirvana. The influences embarked there upon have changed many a soul, from realisations to recantations which i like to call “The twist of soul and the connotation”.

For those who already know life can be cruel with puissant intimidation sparing none and there are no exceptions. But for some, music gives a risible approach and forces a twist which changes the perceptions of life. Songs that were heard start to map the incidents with intuitions, repercussions with regressions and regret with rejoice. And thus spoke ‘Music washes away from the soul the dust of everyday life’. So discover the phenomenonal complexity of music and the way it can positively influence your life.

Of balls and bollocks

‘Balls to all sans a few’ stands to stir a hue but did anybody get the cue. For all that is said and done i only intended to ignore all but few, the professionals do it and so will i. This blog has already made many reds and blues but drawing the flak can only be done by that very few. So if my blog has seen some reprobation, bollocks i say’ just know it’s not for the hoi polloi. Please know that am here to stay and ill pay none the heeds for i write what i feel ‘reality and reason’. A warning that i give: dont eat more than you can chew.

The Down whiskey code: (Might not be as illustrious as The Da Vinci Code)

Mr. Dan would get brown after reading this blog, cant help it but write my own researched piece on the whiskey code. The code stands simple unlike the later running through ages and puzzles for am not a symbologist and certainly not Mr. Robert Langdon to solve complex questions. The iterated words that are stuttered and muttered while under the influence can even make Mr. Robert run for cover.
Coming back to the code

1) Never stand and consume for you may fall once you fall asleep.
2) Never call women when drunk for you may not remember what you spoke and then brood over your unintentional commitments.
3) Never carry more money than the amount you consume for you may end-up paying more than you can digest in the morning.
4) Never pick up a lady after getting drunk for who knows how they actually look in the morning. (The Beer Google effect)
5) Never drink and drive for you may pass-out and meet with an accident so always drink while driving with this you may actually end up drunk by the time you reach home.
6) Never mix drinks without much knowledge for you may end up with a head weighing a ton.
7) Always carry contraceptives for who knows you might even end up humping anything that walks.
8) Always carry a compass or a map for you might be wondering where you are in the morning.
9) Never ever drink on empty stomach for that is the reason you end up putting extra kilos as you tend to drink more and eat much more after drinks.
10) Always be happy with what you get to drink for after consumption all have the same impact.

Sun block (SPF 50+)

The human emotion i say is like a paradoxical reaction with more to it than expected. The whimsical notions associated are quite capricious and may leave more than a stain when encountered.

Love gives warmth and shines on people who embrace it but did we ever wonder what would come off it when we explore it without limits! Well it gives a tan to the fortunate else a sun burn to the less fortunate. I always loved the song ‘sunscreen for everyone’ by Bazz Lurhmann and always wondered why would he use such a title for his song, well it makes a lot of sense - too much of love exposure either tans you or burns you and to avoid such we use a sunscreen (here it is an advice or lessons from experience).

I always pitied my friends and others who suffered the dreaded which i like to call ‘the Love lorn and torn either way’ syndrome. Anyways whenever i found such fools brooding over their tales i always thought ‘get a life dude/tte’ but once did i know i would find myself in the same pit like they.

The journey was amazing though, the thrills and the attached frills always made me want more (sometimes regretfully when curtailed). The fun filled days were like love candles (handles too thanx to the beer after breaking up) lighting up my days, nights and afternoons giving me the warmth of the other side which i never felt. For i say ‘A lovers love conjures all thee’, however being an Indian and born with that extra bit of melanin i was able to protect myself from getting severely burnt or hurt under the candles (and handles). My extra bit of melanin here was the love and understanding of my family and the involved, i just could pull it through.

The experience was more than exciting and ascertaining than i could have ever imagined or dreamed of for i analysed the pit and admired my craftsmanship for digging myself to such depths. The epitome of the emotions that are involved can only be blocked with a sun block along with the appropriate SPF levels. We Indians use less concentrated sunscreen thanks to the extra melinine and hence more prone to the extremes while the west who are lesser fools emotionally use a higher concentration. "Thus forth use a sunscreen and enjoy the heat no matter where you come from."