Let us start with a simple analogy of a marriage/ relationship to an Egg. Might sound silly but there are many lessons we can learn from simple natural creations around us.
Did you know that the near spherical shape of the egg makes it impossible to crack from a certain angle contrary to the fragility that is associated to it. In the same way our lives, the new love lives or marriages take an impossible to break bonding and nothing can break it or threaten the shape or idea behind it.
The couple that are newly in love or married share the most intimate of moments, a perfect relationship far from the reality of life and slowly fall under the belief that this perfection will remain and they are the perfect couple and nothing can touch them. But little did we know that this is not a fairy tale and having to take life for granted will take its toll on the relationship and it will break or wear down with time. Just like attacking the egg from the sides or the weaker section of it. The relationship which was assuming the perfect near spherical shape is giving away or slowly losing its shape cos we have taken each other for granted or the relationship on the whole. The notion that once it is yours will always stay yours creeps in and there starts the problem for everything.
I am not a relationship guru neither am I married to give you an insight of what happens in relationships and why are we seeing more and more of unhappy couples and failing relationship and marriages.
Now let us start with the most wonderful thing we all are good at, the blame game. So, then who is actually breaking the egg?
..to be contd
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