Well here it is my own recipe for winning her heart but cutting short the chase and ending up with her.
First understand this, a women's heart is a room locked from outside and the key thrown away in the ocean. You can’t anyways find it or open it with sure shot key. You will have to find a duplicate by trying every possible key in the process; simply put, you will have to keep trying and trying and once you enter her heart you are there forever (as long as you are a good resident).
Now the tough part, opening her heart with the key you discovered after several hit and trials is just the beginning. You are not sure what’s in the room (her heart) whether you have anybody already residing in it (her first love or an ex or something else) so be prepared for any eventuality or any sudden discoveries or face hitting situations. But be happy to know that you have opened the room (her heart) and there lies a million opportunities to make her yours.
I always have believed in one thing, getting to have her attention is the most difficult part. She might like your attire, your attitude, your smile, your humour, your confidence or your everything or anything. So always be at your best and always and i mean always be yourself, no one knows what might catch her eye but once you get it i should say we cracked the code to her heart.
Now to the cheat codes
Aged 18 to 23 - the girls falling under this age group are all daddy girls. You should tread carefully not for the fear of getting roughed by her dad but by falling into confusion of understanding her. Simply put they are themselves confused over many a million issues like discovering their womanhood, menstrual cycles, mood swings, physical growth, and misunderstandings among their friends over many issues which might even be about some blue eyed bloke.
The key is to be sensible and shower love just as equal or more than her dad does, be there for her for everything even for conversations she can’t have with her father. Treat her like a lady and never discount her based on her age, girls basically at this age are usually treated as kids if not growing adults by their parents and the ones around. Primarily their parents fear presenting or addressing them as adults for their own reasons. Pamper her; the universal rule to any girls heart, be kind with words treat her royal and i guarantee she is yours life.
I have scores more instructions but it is always good to have a head start in the race to win her heart. End of which always be honest and never try to take advantage of her vulnerabilities.
Aged 24 to 26 - the women falling under this age are been there and heard that kinds with less or no actual experience of handling true love or a charmer like you (that is if u believe you are one). All you need is confidence and chivalry. Here they enter the phase of dreaming and searching for the prince charming kinds and i should tell you being the usual you will not work. Up the ante and i promise her heart is yours. So as the fables go be her prince charming save her from the other not so charming boring guys. First thing to win her attention is being a wise ass and being funny and honestly if none of these traits are yours then i am sorry you don’t belong to read this blog.
At this age she is past her regular feminine issues she is now bothered with settling down with her prince charming or someone near to that. Play fair treat her like she is your princess build your castle around her. Show her that her future with you is secured and she will always be your princess and you guys will live happily ever after.
As again i do not want to stress more on how to win her but will again advice you, you break her heart here and the scar remains forever and coming from such a similar situation i understood that injuries heal but scars remain.
Aged 27 and more - The women here are the toughest to convince. They don’t just have their room locked from outside but also from the inside, even if you end up opening the door (her heart) she will still have to get convinced to allow you in. Simply put you end up either as hers for life or out forever or rarely a friend till days end.
The rules of the game change here and none of the cheat codes work. All you have to do is be yourself and pray for her to open her heart.
But again honesty, chivalry, respect towards her, respect towards fellow beings, responsibility, taking control of situations, being the first to jump the gun, first to initiate, humble, generous, family oriented and other such traits can immensely help you impress her to open the lock from inside.
Just know one thing here they are been there, done that and even burned him kinds so whatever you try or do always have noble intentions and above all be patient and voila they are yours for life.
We have many more to cover but honestly don’t eat what you can’t digest.
Disclaimer - The above are a personal perspective and in no way are an intention to hurt the sentiments of any individual or gender addressed as in the post.
And to all who wish to follow the above, please consider this to be a cheat code to her heart than to break it.
2 Ur take on the above:
And you think you know all of us inside out?
Honestly i do not know any of the women inside out, the above is only from a perspective and might not be true at all. But again as said its only a perspective and it changes with individuals and how they perceive the entire subject of understanding women and winning her heart.
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